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Get the date right

This may seem like an obvious rule, which makes it all the more easier to ignore until the very last minute. If a wedding date has been locked in, it’s generally a good idea to organise the bucks a few weeks beforehand. At the very least, whatever you do, do not have it the night before the wedding unless you want the groom red-eyed and hungover when he’s trying to say his vows.

 

Consider everyone’s budget

While in theory, renting out the penthouse on the top floor of a five-star hotel may seem like a grand idea for bucks night, keep in mind that not all your mates will have the same budget. Some might have kids to feed, while others are paying off their mortgage, so keep costs within reason. There are plenty of party ideas that won’t cost an arm and a leg, but will still make for a memorable night.

Don’t do anything (too) stupid

Sure, some debauched activity is probably expected, but make sure you don’t cross the line. Keep the festivities safe and legal so the groom can show up on his wedding day in one piece. As best man, it’s your duty to make sure the groom is kept in check and nothing gets out of hand.

 

Know what the groom is into

Remember that the bucks party is not about you, so keep it in line with the groom’s interests and likes. You may get a kick out of skydiving or bungee jumping off a cliff, but if the groom isn’t a thrill-seeker, you may want to take that into consideration. Similarly, not all grooms are into the stripper thing, so make sure you have the green light before planning a private strip tease for the man of the hour.

 

Get the guest list approved

To avoid any awkward confrontations, it’s best to run the guest list by the groom first. Is he the type of groom who wants all his friends plus friends of friends to be there, or does he prefer to keep it to close mates only? You’ll never know if you don’t ask.

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1. Keep it Short

Nothing kills wedding vibes more than a long, drawn-out speech. Sure you may have plenty of stories to tell about your best mate, but let’s be honest, none of the guests probably care. They just want to be entertained and get on to the next course of the evening. So keep your speech short, simple and to-the-point for maximum effectiveness.

2. It’s Not About You

Many best men start by explaining how they met the groom for the first time, which is fine, as long as it doesn’t turn into a speech about your life story. Remember it’s not about you. It’s not even about your friendship with the groom. It’s about the couple, so be respectful of that and keep the focus on them.

3. Don’t Get Drunk

We know an open bar makes it that much easier to get hammered, and alcohol can certainly help with public speaking nerves, but if you’re giving the best man’s speech, staying sober is the way to go. Long speeches kill wedding vibes, but a drunk best man can ruin the entire wedding. You will not only embarrass yourself, but the couple as well. If you must have a few drinks, keep it to a minimum – at least until the speech is over.

4. Be Thankful

Expressing gratitude to the bride and groom, their family, and anyone else who made the big day possible, is always a good thing. It’s easy to include in your speech and will win you major brownie points.

5. Be Tasteful with Your Jokes

The best man’s speech is not the time to make distasteful jokes about the bride, how the groom is “whipped” or about love and marriage in general. Definitely do not mention divorce, sex or ex-girlfriends. It’s good to make the crowd laugh, but avoid controversial topics and inside jokes no one would care about except you and the groom.

6. End by Raising a Glass to the Couple

Always end the speech by toasting the couple and expressing to your mate know how happy you are that he’s found the one. This can be in the form of a quote about love, or you can keep it simple and say it in your own words.

Making a great best man’s speech doesn’t have to be difficult. If you’re nervous, remember to practise in front of a mirror before the big day. The important thing is to be yourself, be sincere and try not to insult anyone.

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1. Quad Biking

If the groom is the outdoors type, quad biking provides an adrenaline rush sure to satisfy any thrill seeker. Bond with your mates as you bike across landscape tracks and terrains. It’s a great way to kick off the ultimate bucks party. This one’s recommended as a day time activity, and definitely before the drinking starts.

2. Skydiving

Maybe your mate lives life a little more on the edge (he is getting married after all). What better way to send him off than by having him pushed off a plane at 10,000 feet in the air? This activity isn’t for the faint-hearted, but if the all the boys are down, it makes for a memorable experience. You’ll also get a video from the skydiving company to document the jump.

3. Escape Room

The groom might not be the sporty and adventurous type. Maybe he’s a bit more nerdy, or gets a kick out of solving puzzles. Escape Room involves you and your mates getting locked in a room and you have a limited time to find a way out using the clues scattered around. This activity is perfect for the more mathematical groom who enjoys thinking out of the box. At the very least, you and your mates will get a laugh out of it while working on some serious team-building skills. If Escape Room doesn’t appeal, similar activities include paintball or team sports.

4. Wine or Brewery Tour

So your mate doesn’t like sports, or games. He’s more into the finer things in life like hatted restaurants and fancy red wine. Why not book a wine or craft brewery tour? This activity combines road tripping, sightseeing and getting hammered all into one glorious day. Just make sure you have a designated driver if the rest of you are going overboard with the “tastings”.

5. Bucks Cruise

If you’re looking for an all-in-one bucks party, consider getting the boys together for a bucks cruise. It’s a fantastic way to end a bucks night after a full day of activities. There are endless options to choose from, great food and alcohol, plus a stunning view of the harbour. Throw in a strip show if your mate has the green light, or if not, play some poker or opt to include some stops during the cruise for some fun-filled activities. The best part about a cruise is the privacy. No brawling and getting kicked out of bars here, which are guaranteed to spoil the night.

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